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I won't add everyone, so please don't be offended if I don't.
hello: stoogestitania_consort on July 10th, 2006 10:54 pm (UTC)
I have a little bit to add to my prior comment, I've been reading your journal for a couple years, and I've found that we share many of the same interests, which is delightful. And on top of that, your style of writing is captivating and quite entertaining and it would be nice to be livejournal friends. Take care!
helixaspersahelixaspersa on July 23rd, 2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
Hello. I've read your journal occasionally for a long time now - initially because quite a long time ago you were briefly I think taught by my friend from Oxford Emily Pillinger (now doing a PhD at Princeton and in fact I shall be seeing her there this summer). Admittedly, we don't have much in common at all, but just to say that I have enjoyed reading your journal from time to time, and I wish you well for the future. I hope that nothing unpleasant has precipitated this decision - I thought you brave to remain public for so long (I hardly ever use my journal and even so it's been friend-locked for a while). Victoria.
Madame de Pompadourmmepompadour on July 25th, 2006 11:17 am (UTC)
Oh goodness, yes! Emily! She taught me lovely things about Aristophanes. I shall friend you. :)
Kenziekenzie on July 29th, 2006 02:38 pm (UTC)
I would like to continue to be up in your shiznit. THX.
Kukiliakukilia on August 1st, 2006 11:04 pm (UTC)
Steph~i won't pretend that i'm not sad that i'm no longer on your FL, and can no longer read about your piratey-adventures or be envious of your fab belly-dancing skills~especially given that i've been reading you for 3+ years now. i know i'm a quiet person (posting in my own lj appx. 4 entries a month) and i rarely comment...and perhaps these are compelling reasons not to have someone friended. but i just want to say that i'm glad to have read what i have, and i sincerely hope that you find the peace & happiness you deserve. a girl can only hope that you'll be able to come back into the public space again. wishing you all the best--Lali.
Gearboxgeargrinder on August 8th, 2006 11:39 pm (UTC)
Jeff Here
Not THE Jeff, but Jeff-what-lives-in-Silicon-Valley-working-in-a-gaming-store-friend-of-Conor Jeff. I was wondering if we could be online-buddy-buddy-blog-space-public-journal-which-I-never-write-in friends.

So, yeah, please add me?

*note* Inability to edit to add a simple Please to one sentence has resulted in an attempted reply-edit, followed by a cut and paste then delete edit. Go about your business citizen, nothing to see here.
Madame de Pompadourmmepompadour on August 10th, 2006 07:54 am (UTC)
Re: Jeff Here
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Madame de Pompadourmmepompadour on August 11th, 2006 08:32 am (UTC)
Re: Hi :)
Hi!!!! :D
Spencerdascribe on August 26th, 2006 04:41 pm (UTC)
You are a curious winged creature. I do hope I am worthy of an add. Either way, good day to you.
Madame de Pompadourmmepompadour on September 9th, 2006 09:42 pm (UTC)
Re: Curious
Hee, I didn't realize this was you from MySpace... haven't updated my flist in awhile. :) Hi!
Re: Curious - mmepompadour on September 9th, 2006 09:42 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Lisajulisana on October 30th, 2006 02:46 pm (UTC)
I know you already posted a link to this, but the 300 spartans trailer has made it to apple.com


Hope this cheers you up :)
Katenewyorkdork on November 14th, 2006 09:38 pm (UTC)
I know we have not spoken but I read your myspace.com and I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know that words could never take away your pain and that nothing I say will bring you comfort or ease your pain. If you ever need anything, please let me know. I know how it is to lose people so very close to you and unexpectedly, as I lost a man that was a father to me not even two years ago to a massive heart attack and two weeks ago, the teenage daughter of a family friend to suicide. If you ever need anything at all, even if it is just to know someone understands or just to scream and vent, please do not hesitate to ever let me know. My email is Kate71186@hotmail.com My AIM is: New York Dork 86. My Yahoo is SacredTrust421 and my cell phone number is 315.278.3987. I check them all multiple times a day and we are in different time zones but if you ever need to talk, even when is midnight or later my time, please don't hesitate if you need something. I will be here for you in any way I can be and at any time you need it.

cassymk on November 15th, 2006 03:00 pm (UTC)
I'm a friend of Ali's and saw the post about your little brother. I am so sorry & wanted to send my condolences. I don't even know you but your loss breaks my heart. I have a little brother the same age; I can't even imagine what you're going through. Stay strong.
Denasheylea on November 15th, 2006 06:37 pm (UTC)
I found out, through a friend of a friend what happened. And know, that even a stranger on the East Coast, has you and your family in her thoughts and prayers.

Katenewyorkdork on November 17th, 2006 01:49 am (UTC)
I wish I could give you a hug. I hope that your memories are helping you to find some strength at this time. If you need anything, absolutely anything at all, please do not hesitate to let me know.

alyssaayeyieyie on November 17th, 2006 10:13 pm (UTC)
Hi Stephanie,

I'm not sure if you remember me. Joe's friend, Alyssa. I just wanted to tell you that I'm very sorry and that my heart and thoughts go out to you and your family.

Saturninesaturnine on November 17th, 2006 10:19 pm (UTC)
I don't know that I've ever noted you before, I read you for years. A friend of mine on your faves list told me about your brother. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and your family.
(Anonymous) on November 18th, 2006 07:40 am (UTC)
I've read your journal for such a long time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't even imagine the loss you are feeling right now. Just know that Angels are watching over you and your family at this time. I am so very sorry for you loss, Stephanie.

Katenewyorkdork on November 18th, 2006 09:10 pm (UTC)
I just wanted to give you another :hug: I hope that you are hanging in there and I wish there was something I could do for you. If there ever is, like I have said before, do not hesitate to let me know. I am online 12+ hours a day. I keep you and your family in my prayers every night and every night I pray that God will watch over you and your family and comfort you. I will continue to ask Him to do that. I lost the only father I knew less than two years ago and I know it is not nearly the same but I know a little about how it feels. If there is anything I can do or say to bring you any amount of comfort, please let me know. I check email, etc several times a day so I will get back to you the same day if you need something. I don't know you but just from your few journal entries I have read lately and entries I read of yours 3+ years ago when I first found you, etc, I can just tell you are an amazing and wonderful person and if there if anything I can do to ease your pain in any way or bring you any amount of comfort, I will be more than happy to do so.


Katenewyorkdork on November 18th, 2006 11:14 pm (UTC)
Sorry, I forgot to mention this in my P.S. comment:

This book helped me and my family. And I know in a time like this, if you are every ready to read it, that it may help you. Especially at this time of year. It helped me because when Jeff died, it was so hard for me because it was Thanksgiving, his birthday, anniversary, and Christmas all in a few weeks time. And it made me so angry because the world just kept going and it didn't seem fair. So, I thought I would give the name of it to you: Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others are Celebrating. It is by Harold Ivan Smith.

I have felt so horrible. I do not know why I feel like I share a connection to you, but I feel like we could have the potential to be great friends. I don't mean for that to sound creepy. I am sorry if it does. My heart just wishes so much that I can do something for you, anything at all. I want so much to be able to make things better or at least comfort you, even if for a short period of time. But all I can do is be here for you, if you ever need anything. So, like I have told you before, if you ever do need anything, absolutely anything at all, do not hesitate to let me know. Even if you just need to talk to someone who may understand, even a tiny tiny tiny bit.

La Missplzgetmeoffline on November 19th, 2006 02:00 pm (UTC)
Okay, I just read about what happened.. I used to read your journal back in the day before the friends-only thing.

So many people I know have passed away in 2006, family, friends and acquaintances. It has been such a terrible year.

I just don't know what to tell you, this is a terrible loss.. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Be strong and never lose faith.

I don't know what to say :( I'm sorry..

Katenewyorkdork on January 2nd, 2007 04:13 am (UTC)
Hi! I just wanted to wish you a Happy New Year. I hope that your holidays were okay. I keep you and your family in my prayers. I hope that this new year brings you happiness. Like I have said before, if you would ever like to talk/be friends, I am here. Happy 2007.

sarahsavant on May 5th, 2007 12:59 am (UTC)
This is my new LJ. Add me back!

matafleur on June 9th, 2007 11:03 pm (UTC)
I am working on moving to shadowsound and will be soon deleting this journal. I know that I don't comment all that much but it would mean a lot to me if you'd add my new journal as your postings are always very much looked forward to.
thanks for your consideration!
caffeine addict: Corseteyetwitchy on July 28th, 2007 02:08 am (UTC)
Umm... cheesecake!

Madame de Pompadour: gidgie nemesismmepompadour on July 30th, 2007 04:58 am (UTC)
Mmm, cheesecake.
Susan: cat in the hatsuzermagoozer on November 27th, 2007 03:01 pm (UTC)
glad to see you back in TQC.
wondering if i might join your journal...i remember that you took wonderful photos (i recall a trip to the hearst castle!) and hoping i might join the group.
Madame de Pompadourmmepompadour on November 27th, 2007 09:57 pm (UTC)
Ha, these days I'm a bit wary about letting any new members of some LJ Dramaish crowds in (which I hope you don't take offensively), but I don't exactly have any dirty sekrits to be let out, so why not. ;P
(no subject) - suzermagoozer on November 28th, 2007 01:20 am (UTC) (Expand)
dustyhorizon_eyes on February 16th, 2008 05:27 am (UTC)
Hi Stephanie.. this is Dustin's friend Erin. I spoke to you on LJ before with my old journal. Would you add me?
dustyhorizon_eyes on February 18th, 2008 11:57 pm (UTC)
thanks :)
RinnyWeerinnywee on January 24th, 2009 02:27 pm (UTC)
Woman! :D